The Futility of Appeasing Trump
The recent exchange between comedians Patton Oswalt and Dean Obeidallah on The Dean Obeidallah Show has shed light on an intriguing aspect of Donald Trump's personality. It's fascinating to see how Trump's relationships with those who try to appease him often end in disappointment. This dynamic is particularly evident in the case of Bill Maher, who, despite his good intentions, found himself on the receiving end of Trump's wrath.
Oswalt's observation is spot on: Trump seems to lose respect for people the moment they try to 'placate' him. This is a man who thrives on defiance and adoration. When someone like Maher, a well-known political commentator, attempts to find common ground, Trump senses weakness. In my opinion, this is a classic case of a power play, where Trump's ego demands absolute loyalty or nothing at all.
What makes this even more intriguing is the contrast with late-night hosts Stephen Colbert and Jimmy Kimmel. These two have consistently criticized Trump, and while he may hate them, it's a different kind of hatred. Trump wants their love, and until he gets it, he'll keep them in his crosshairs. This is a man who, according to Oswalt, deep down hates himself, and this self-loathing manifests in his relationships.
Personally, I find this dynamic revealing of a larger trend in Trump's behavior. Those who stick to their principles, like Colbert and Kimmel, maintain a certain power. They are not easily swayed or manipulated. On the other hand, those who try to appease Trump, whether for political or business reasons, often find themselves in a losing battle. Trump's unpredictability and lack of respect for those who 'suck up' to him are well-documented.
This raises a question: Is it ever wise to try and find common ground with someone like Trump? In my view, it's a risky strategy. While Maher's intention to engage with those he disagrees with is commendable, it's a fine line to tread. Trump's track record shows that he often turns on those who initially support him. This is a man who thrives on controversy and division, and any attempt to 'soften' him may be futile.
The business world is not exempt from this phenomenon either. Oswalt's comment about people getting 'destroyed' after doing business with Trump is a stark reminder of the potential consequences. It seems that Trump's business dealings are just as unpredictable as his political alliances. One thing is clear: Trump's respect is not easily earned, and it's even harder to keep.
In conclusion, the Trump conundrum is a complex one. While engaging in dialogue is essential in politics, the nature of Trump's personality makes it a challenging endeavor. The lesson here might be that sometimes, sticking to your guns and maintaining your principles is the most effective approach, even if it means enduring Trump's ire. It's a fine line between diplomacy and appeasement, and in Trump's world, the latter rarely pays off.
